"Be with someone who WANTS to be with you. Stop chasing anyone who doesn't."
One of the insightful people on this board wrote that. It's as right as rain. I keep going back to it anytime there's an uncertainty regarding a relationship. If you really wanted to be with someone...wouldn't you make time for them? Wouldn't you return their texts? Wouldn't you put forth the required effort? Wouldn't you commit?
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.