Originally Posted By: Lost
I've thought alone time has meant away from me, but now she's come clean and said away from both of us. That time with our S isn't the same.


Don't even try to make sense of what is going on in her head.

Purgatory has given you some good advice re: setting boundaries with your W.

Your #1 job right now is to protect yourself and your son from the storm that is going inside her.

I don't have kids but I have seen some very wise advice on kids which I will pass along:

It is not your job to repair or manage the relationship she has with your son.

It is your job not to damage it.

That is the part you control.

Have you done any more research on childhood sexual abuse and its effect on victims in adult life?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am