Thank you for the advice purgatory. I've been concerned that we may start to see some behavior issues, but fortunately we haven't yet with our S (he's 5 by the way). I'm going to ask that she continues to pick him up after the sitters and stay with him till I get home from work. Then if the W would like to have another day, Sunday, if that's the choice we will set that to. I also think your approach of calling before just dropping by as that way there are some bumper rails in place. All in all it's not a huge commitment from her as it will be 3 days of pickup and about an hour each day waiting for me to get home, then time Sunday morning that she requested. The selfishness is shocking to me though. I hope I can find some peace with this aspect of it. This afternoon I'm going to starting reading DR. Hopefully it's addressed in there to an extent.
