Yes, I've read DR. I know the rules and what to do/not to do. It's still really hard and takes its toll. He wants me to think about living arrangements. So far we've just been avoiding each other and I've been giving him his space. He still says he wants a divorce. This is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with and it's just so unimaginable to think he won't even try to work on anything. I know it's something that can be worked out. But, I'm not bringing it up, I'm not pursueing, I'm not reacting...I'm just here in limbo basically.
