What kinds of things did you 2 enjoy doing as a couple when times were good? Would she be willing to have a "date" once a week or every 2 weeks? Would you be willing?
I think every time she drags it back to the past you should remind her that the past is over and if we can't let it go we relive it over and over. "W, I only want to look forward now"
Or is that true? Do you have a vision of the man you want to be? What is that?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
