Suddenly Separated in VA -- need your help

[labug]

I think you'll be pleasantly surprised as you move through this process how much better you will feel little by little.

I spent what seems like weeks crying in bed but I had to do that to get here. I was still doing things to keep my life from spinning totally out of control but those days were pretty dark.

And now I have very few of those days but I'm beginning to realize that we never "get there" whatever there is. We just have to keep taking the next step on our path.

"realize that you just move forward inch by inch and that it is just a journey and not a specific place to reach..."from zig's thread