BF, I get those financial talks, yuck, but you do need to look out for you and kiddies. It is pretty cut and dried down here in the states. He will have to do his part. And if he has to get a 2nd job, thats good because well if it is like down here they base on how much he is bringing in, how much you bring in. Also maybe you shouldn't worry if you upset him. You are A MOM looking out for your kids. I'm so new to this, it is hard to advise, vets where are you? Probably all asleep since we are the nite owls!
