Well I don't have a passport so I need to get the extended license, another thing on to do list. I haven't really read the book mars, venus maybe I should too. Just heard alot about it and how we are so different. You should totally fight, It breaks my heart that he is walking away from a lovely women and such young children. My daughter who isn't married and has no kids is just a year younger than you. It would just kill me to see her go thru what you have. I read way back late into the nite your past threads. At 3:00 am I had to stop, maybe later I can finish them. Nice to have a west coast buddy!