good for you! btw.. i love the godfather!! one of my all time favourites.

yes i am in vancouver! birch bay is just a hop, skip and a jump away. my sister's inlaws have a place there. oh! i sense a GAL trip for you!

you are definitely correct about the book. men and venus and sex or something along those lines. listening to her talk about it made me think.. hmmmm.. i need to read that book.

i thought my H left rather abruptly as well but looking back.. i'm sure he had checked out emotionally long before. i just wasn't advised. actually, had things gone on a little longer.. i may have ended up being the WAS because i was questioning a lot of things. this process has made me reassess my priorities and values. never realized how strong i believe in fighting for a M and what i feel is ultimately in the best interest of my kids. who knew?


Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11