I am having a hard time going dark or dim when we are living in the same house and our kids know nothing about our issues.

I do not want to disrupt my kids or have them feel like anything is wrong. Right now my H is spending lots of time with the kids to avoid time with me. I have been pretty much left to myself lately.

H is telling me he is just stressed about work and needs space. Other than that he feels like things between us are good. I do not have that feeling.

So i need advice on how to go dim while still living in the same house and keeping communication open.


M 6yrs
H 33yrs
W 31yrs