I can imagine how you feel. And I think you are between a rock and a hard place. This will be the hardest bit of detaching ever.

Leave your alt universe page open to the public. Wish him Happy birthday on there, and Merry Christmas. Your status updates will be there for him to see. Send your nice thoughts out into the universe. He is an adult. He will check on you. Just let him come to you when he is ready.

Take care, thanks for the friend request!

Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!