Figg thanks for your reply. As far as my son goes....he is so afraid of his dad getting upset at him. Right after xh moved out, son went to stay with him. I would have to drop something off to son (and did so when no one was there except son), and I would barely get in the drive (no intentions of getting out), and son would say hurry mom I dont want dad to get mad. So I know this is some of the reason why son doesnt speak to me. If he knew his dad and I could be decent to one another, it would help him. He doesnt want to make his dad mad, so in turn, he acts toward me the same. He doesnt think he has a choice. Now I know you are thinking he is an adult, and he is, but you have NO IDEA how BIG an infulence his dad has on him. So thats why I say if his dad and I could be decent to one another, it would help son. Son thinks he doesnt have a choice. I am just trying so hard to make things better for son and I. I thought maybe because it had been so long (over a yr.)since I tried to speak to husband that he would maybe just maybe be decent enough to speak to me AND in turn son would see we CAN get along.....we will ALWAYS be his mom and dad. It kills me to think how my son must feel. I mean really, knowing your mom and dad cant even speak to each other. It was just us 3 for many many years. It just tears me up inside for my son. As far as court. I talked to the Distrct Court Office and they informed me that there was a filing fee and a fee to have it served. I dont have money right now. I only work part time. I just started school. I really do NOT need to go to court. PLUS if xh would use his head he wouldnt want me to take him.
