We go on week Caribbean trip next week with her family with out the kids, so I'm still very nervous about that! i don't know what she's told anyone in her family about our R, but I don't think too much other than maybe we were having problems a few months ago.
That could be her reason for you going with the family. In any case, once you are on the trip...be the most charming man alive without any expectations about the trip changing your W's feelings. Even if she puts on a front for her parents, it may not be so much when behind closed doors.
This is an annual trip we do with them and has been planned/payed for for almost a year, so I don't think/hope that's her plan. She's not too close to her family, and doesn't like to talk about our family issues with them at any time. I just think she mentioned some stuff to her brother one time because she told me he gave her the Dr. Stanley CD's and "Love is not a Decision" a while ago. We are also all going to her sister's wedding in a few months, so I don't think she'd do something like this on this trip. Hope I'm wrong, but regardless... Thanks for the great advice to be the most charming man of my life on this trip!
M 43, W 40 T 22. M 14 D 14, S 9, S 8 DD 11/21/11 Retrouvaille 4/13/12--and the healing begins as we begin a new journey together!
