The longer you can make your time frame for recovery the better your strategy will be. If you try to fix this before the end of March you will come up with a unsuccessful plan but it you envision having Thanksgiving together as a family, that time frame will help you develop a more successful strategy.
Trust me I understand how hard it is to accept that this will not be resolved in a week or two.
Since you sound like a work aholic can you take use vacation days to take one day a week off for the next month to help around the house? Just a thought
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13