H is definitely being much nicer today. I need to make sure I don't fall for it. Acknowledge his efforts, but don't get sucked in.
I do agree that he wants to make sure that I still want him, and after our conversations during the last couple of days I let him to believe that I wasn't so sure anymore.
We both took S4 to soccer today, and then dropped him off at MIL's for a few hours. We had a chance to go have lunch just the two of us. I thought that might be nice, but as we almost got to the place he got a work related phone call and he was pretty much busy problem solving about the issue that continued well after lunch.
So my GAL activity was to go to Target for a while, and then pick up S4 from MIL's. MIL mentioned that she wanted to invite H for lunch tomorrow, but when I got home I saw an email from her telling me that she's changed her mind and is too angry w/ H about hurting me. She's been very supportive this whole time, and even though at first H was very angry that I told her about our sitch (that was before I knew about rule #6 on the 37 rules list). She is an LBS herself.....many, many years ago.
H told me about a brunch that some soccer people were having, and that he'll take S4. I guess I'm not invited. I could use the time and go to the gym...no excuses!