Ok ill get out of the house and let her reflect on her own as shes pulling things out. and i guess that answers my question about pre packing her stuff to make it easy on her. the reason i asked was because it would be a 180 on my part seeing that i have been trying to keep her here so the opposite of that would be packing her things for her. on the other hand packing could have a small chance in giving her second thoughts although its very unlikely.
