OMG I cant believe she is gone

[Cadet]

She is a WAW and she will not do what you think she'll do.

In fact it means that she will do the OPPOSITE of what you think she might do.

That is why you can have NO EXPECTATIONS.

Yes you must LET HER GO,
because that is the only way that you might get her back.

DB'ing is counterintuitive, letting go does not mean pushing her away, it just means to leave her alone.

Hope that helps.