Not sure where to start.....I have posted before and recieved so much support, and now I think my H is having a MLC. I will share my story here again breifly and please advise.
A year ago I found out my H was having a affair. It had been going on for 6 months. he had the affair because he said he wanted to have some fun and with her there was not responsiblitly. He ended it when I found out and agreed to work on the marriage. Things have been hard. He has said he is not happy and wanted a divorce 3 times and we even did a live in seperation. After the live in speration in November thing got better. Now it seems like he is not happy again. He does not want to talk to me at all about it. He said he is feeling overwelmed at work and cannot take anything else. So that leaves me with no one to talk to when I am feeling insecure. We are in counceling and she is encourging me to talk about things when I am feeling them, but my H cannot seem to handle the talks. I am not sure if he is seeing anyone again or not. I am trying to to snoop cause if he is it will come out soon enough.
As of right now he just feel very distant to me. He is home but it does not seem like he really wants to be here. I feel like he is just going through the motions.
I am trying to work on myself, but our situation seems to consume me at times. I am re reading DB and have read DR as well.
I just do not know what to do when he refuses to talk at all to me. I have decided to just leave it alone and see what happens.....
