Renee, Answer me 1 question. How many times have you talked to your son after trying to talk to XH? I can answer it for you, ZERO. So why do you keep doing it? You sitting there saying there is no other way is silly. Get an email address from one of his friends, or a cell number, or send him a message via facebook. I don't see what a debt from a divorce decree had anything to do with your son...... Renee, you are going to have to accept the idea that your XH doesn't want to speak to you under any circumstances. Do yourself a favor and give him what he wants.
