I did not see any reply there that is why I am here.
By lowering my expectations, can u give me some example?
Originally Posted By: Cadet
Lower your EXPECTATIONS.
Yes you have some good signs but then you need to keep up with your changes, THAT HAPPY FACE.
Have you ever considered that your wife may have post partom depression?
Does that change what you feel? Or what you do?
Give her SPACE to work it out.
I would suggest you keep your thread on newcomers going. Update there with these posts.
You will get more traffic there that here.
Lower your expectations means to not think something is going to happen because it has in the past.
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Her reply, if she is back, I will be back to what I am in the past. Can anyone advise how should I continue from here?
This is an expectation on her part. How can you lower her expectations, what changes can you make so she knows that they are real, and you won't go back to your old ways.
