treading water continues...

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newhamstermom - i was in the book store and saw this book called.. "emotional infidelity" which i am thinking of reading.

quote about book "Take a quick check: Do you send that funny e-mail to your friends at work-but not to your spouse? Do you chew over all the problems on the job so thoroughly with your colleagues that by the time you get home, you just don't feel like going into it all over again? Do you get a secret thrill out of flirting with coworkers-thinking it's safe because you know it's not going any further? If so, you're committing emotional infidelity-and you're draining your marriage of the energy it needs to be great. Learning how to break this cycle is one of eleven secrets M. Gary Neuman shares in his provocative new book."

and then i come here and read accuray's post and check out the link..

it's totally my H! and he just refuses to see it. when he had his PA years ago, it was with a chick from work. totally felt remorse.. thought we had worked through it.. now.. i think he is having an EA and may not even know it.

makes me just want to slap him upside the head and say.. read this!! of course i won't. doesn't mean i don't want to!