Pole dancing! Love it! Working on the house! Awesome! I didn't put it down but my GAL was to redo my kitchen. So far I painted the cabinets. Next, new counter.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
I've been searching really hard for even. Small positive, and I only have one:
I bought him a hat over the weekend and he's been wearing it all weekend and every time I see him. (before I get a smack for buying him something, it was in clearance and it was his favorite team... Ok, even when trying to defend my action, I look like a schmuck!)
Vero- you should check out my post from over the weekend.... There's an exciting link you might like
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
1. Back to working out (alternating running for 3 weeks with my kids in a triple jogger and teaching 2-3 45 minute spinning classes a day for 3 weeks), going to start resistance training again. 2. Dropped 25lbs in the last 3 months (since we've been separated) 3. Shopped for all new clothes since the weight loss 4. Reconnecting with close friends, going out on the weekends H has the kids 5. Weekly IC sessions and women's support group 6. Trying to detach and move on and not wait for that miracle moment he decides he actually did love me at some point in our 15 year relationship 7. Focusing on being the best mom I can be to my 3 kids (4 1/2, 2 1/2, 1)
That's a nice thing purg!! Imagine if he hadn't worn it and just had it collecting dust. Wouldn't that be sad BUT NOOOOoooo! He's worn it, not once, not twice, but OFTEN!!
I'll check it out...is it in the piña coladas thread?? Btw: I bought a mango air wick n made me think of the song lol!!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
There has got to be some more posts on this topic people! Even eye contact is a plus! Even a good morning/night! These WAS can be soooo distant that any acknowledgement of our existence is a bonus!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
I am doing good with having no expectations, except for expecting that she is strong willed when it comes to getting a D. As much as that hurts to say that, I am weirdly calm with it right now. Maybe I am ready to move on. Maybe I've detached. The only thing I am afraid of is losing more time with my daughter and having her exposed to W's craziness and her choices.
But that is out of my control and D will grow up to figure it all out on her own. No matter what happens D will always know that i love her and will be there for her.
I also have no expectations of having a relationship after the D is finalized, which means I am not ready for one yet.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12
My called and let me know she was running late. When she got home the car got stuck in the driveway. I then tried to get it free and then it got stuck in the grass. Had to drive I on the sidewalk. Family thought it was funny.
Are u sure it was accidental? I used to do that - I craved physical contact of any kind. I now realize that it means nothing if the WAS doesn't initiate it.
M47 W45 D10 (Has CP) D7 M12 T14 ILYBINILWY 5/1/11 Asked for seperation 5/10/11 Seriously DBing 7/1/11 W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11. Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11 D - Final 7/11/12
