Specifics, please! Can't afford telephone consult!

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So, S16 now has drivers license. H went to his job and filled up his truck with gas and checked fluids, etc. He knows S18 home for weekend because we had short phone conversation about who drives which car and if S16 comfortable with driving a straight.

So, S16 has a hockey game tomorrow. When H first left I said i would not go to hockey if he was home because I wouldn't want to run into him there. My question is this...do I tell him about game? Tell him I am planning on going and it is fine? Or tell him nothing and let him look up team schedule like I had to. I know what yall are going to say...he is in charge of his relationship with his children. So, he told me today "I would have taken S16 to get his license." What to say to that? He wanted space so I am just taking care of things and not initiating contact. I KNOW this is what he thinks. He said to me "I didn't think I had to ask where you were going over break" when I went to our lake house. I guess this is HIS slow and steep learning curve...and just leave it be.

Thoughts???