CV,

It is a risk I can't worry about because I can't live like that. That would lead to jealousy and controlling behavior and I can't do it. All three of the counselors I saw warned me that it's a real risk based on who my W is.

All I can tell you is that if it happens again I'm done and there is no second chance and W knows that. My attitude is that if that's what she wants she should go ahead and do it.

I don't think she will, but I didn't think she would before either. I'm not going to play defence.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015