Learning as I go

[tested metal]

The father's rights group is headed by a real nut bag, who is in the paper everyday for legal trouble. Trust me, no help will come from that. Apparently the state went to strictly 90/10 because they figured permanency was in the best interest of the child. But like I said, the to parties can agree on the side to split 50/50, but their is no legal binding to that so, if the primary caregiver decides to reneg, there is nothing the other can do about it, except refile for custody.

I got that info from the lawyer we saw regarding a stipulated divorce. Granted W sought out this lawyer so I wonder if he was giving me the straight dope.

I will ask L on monday. I am already getting all phone records, pictures, text messages, and journal prepared. According to the state law, custody is based on 19 different qualifications and I have proof that I have met all 19 and W has seriously compromised 5 of them. I don't want to pull that out if I don't have to, but I am prepared.