Originally Posted By: purgatory
Must be draining to go from such a good place at lunc yesterday, to such a low place today. You're only human, so you're bound to make mistakes- its what you do *after* them that really matter.

After you answer Labug's question, answer this: what will you do to keep from doing that again?


Purg, we were cross-posting. My answer to labug's question is right above your post. What will I do next time? Good question. There are times when I am totally ruled by my emotions, when I am acting out. I did apologize and tell him that I was speaking out of anger and frustration. Now I am trying to regroup and focus on the rest of my day. Next time when I feel my emotions getting the best of me, I will acknowledge them, call a friend or my mom, read Sandi's 37 rules, and try to engage in a specific activity to divert my focus. Does that sound like a viable plan? Would you suggest anything? Thank you for posting on my thread.

Mimi


M:37; H:37; M:10 years;T:13 years;no kids.
Bomb ("I love you, but don't feel things for you I should":1/08/12
Separated (H living with various friends:1/18/12
Separated (H rented his own apartment:3/4/12