He seems to being willing to do whatever it takes to heal our M. But then there is this side of me that feels I am letting him off to easy - he should "pay" . Deep in my heart I know my job isn't to teach him a lesson and it all has to come from his heart. So, does it take time? He seems to have owned it all. But, will sometimes get a little defensive if I point a finger at him like"this is happening with the kids because of what you did to us" etc. Is that placing unfair blame? What should I expect from him? Thanks.
