I'm sorry. Geeze, I have to go... but please understand that I am not saying that he IS leaving.
At least not physically.
But an EA is just as much "gone" as a PA.
So when I talk about him leaving you, I am not necessarily talking about it from a physical perspective. Although the way you describe it, if things were different and it was just you and this OW, that you truly believe he would choose her...
And that... could REALLY hurt... which explains a lot...
