Here is something I have been thinking on a while.
In a month or so is W b-day. A few days before that is the one year mark on MIL passing away.
I have known ever since then that her b-days will be emotional times for her. Especialy this one.
With our current sitch... not sure how to approach it.
Had planned on getting her and bff a spa treatment for the day.
Now we haved moved and bff is far away and I just don't see that being fun by yourself. I could be wrong.
Any suggestions? Literature on the issue? Someone who has kinda been here before? A womans touch? Do something? Do nothing?
I feel like I really need help with this one. It is important to me to be "there" for her. She has said I wasn't "there" at the time. (Wanted to so badly, just didn't know how.)
