Agreed, SBT says it doesn't matter why. The only relevant questions are (1) do you acknowledge that it's there, (2) do you want to do something about it, and (3) what are you going to do?

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015