ten, I'm going to talk some 12-Step here. I think you went to AA once but it seems that has fallen off the radar. That's OK, people get there when they get there.

Of the 12-Steps, making amends doesn't even come up until #8, it takes some people a long time to get there.

Any idea why it's that far down on the list?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss