deployment to divorce 1

[31nheartbroken]

I know I gotta quit thinking about his motives. I know it does no good. Part of me, although it's not DB to think about, just hopes that maybe it's because he misses talking to me.

I guess I'm just wondering if they could be viewed as baby steps or steps in the right direction. I guess they could because, the truck tire talk for instance, has nothing to do with D and for the last month the only thing he has talked to me about has been D.

I'm sure we will do a financial agreement when he realizes we have to file in NC. The finance talk really doesn't stress me out and to be honest with you it feels like baby steps too because he has been communicating a little more about the money and the whole time he was in FL he didn't talk about any of that with me. Just did what he wanted and didn't care to share any of his spending.

I feel like he is trying to be a tiny bit more open with me here lately.