Hi I previously posted on the similarities between MLC, Passive Aggressive behaviour and narcissism.
My son has pointed out that his mother exhibits all of the above and in doing so fits the bill for Borderline Personality Disorder (high functioning in her case). This is a lot more common in women than men.
The resource that validates all of my experiences in the last 22 years is www.Sharischreiber.com For me this is the final part of the jigsaw. A lightbulb moment and absolute clarity for the very first time. Wow. Unbelievable! Time just to get a life!
See the references to triangulation to understand the replay affair.
I hope this helps someone else understand the chaos.
Good luck to everyone, we none of us caused this or deserve this. We did not break them it is not our job to fix them. I hope this helps someone else ma
