I just wanted to say I am sorry...this is the hardest time, right after they move out. I do recommend going dark for a while as this will give you the chance to regroup and get to know yourself again. This can be a very educational process. Fun, even. Please take care of yourself.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D