When it's a one-way street...part 3

[25yearsmlc]

KD, I don't mean to come across as rejecting everything. I love the feedback on my current actions, and suggestions on what I can do to not make things worse. I just know my current limitations. ---- The chapter I was just reading is on emotional triggers and how not to respond. That is PERFECT for me right now. It gives me a tool to shut down these conflicts.---
--- I know it took Sandi a long time to motivate, even after she shut down her EA.

Meanwhile, does anyone have information on the conference I've heard about, maybe referred to as EE? I read a reference to it but didn't make a note and now I can't find it. It's a personal thing, not a couples/marriage thing. I thought I might like to look into that.

Yes I do...and there is a website.


Essential Experience is a workshop in Philadelphia that changed my life and my h's and some others around here, like Autumn Leave's and every single person I know who has attended and done it. Check their website. Crazy, I read your thread and I kept telling myself that EE is about the only thing I believe will help you...

why? B/c you have a tremendous amount of rage and no ability to forgive b/c you don't know how and NEITHER DID I...I never saw it growing up for one thing and plus I didn't think my h "deserved" it. Took me a long time to realize that holding onto my anger to punish h was like lighting myself on fire to get smoke in his eyes.

My anger was consuming ME... I needed to let it all go and learn to truly forgive.


EE is a 3-4 day workshop/personal growth experience you cannot BS or rehearse for. IT's run by very well qualified experts and therapists and you will gain clarity and peace if you trust their process and work it.

weekly therapy was good, but inefficient (to me) for changing your life b/c whenever I got an insight or breakthrough, I then had to go pick up the kids or go back to work...and start all over the next week.

plus EE is designed to elicit insights from you in a way that regular therapy won't. THere is Forgivness work I think you would get a lot out of. And you will leave with clarity and peace.

And it's the most supportive environment you'll find anywhere.

I cannot overstate how much it did for us.

Sorry if I sound like an Amway salesman and no, I don't get a kickback for saying this. There is one in April I think. But they fill up fast.

Good luck