The STBX was here earlier to take the DD's out for dinner. The oldest didn't want to go at all, and didn't go. My youngest did go out with him, she came back and she said all he talked about was making her feel bad and pressuring her to come down to his new home where he lives with the Girlfriend. He moved an hour away. I need to update my signature, my daughters are 16 & 13 now. They don't know her. They don't want to go there.
I don't know if I should keep my mouth shut or if I should send him a message and tell him That..... I know the Girls are getting more difficult in their teenage years, but I don't think pressuring them and making them feel guilty will help. This is the life he chose, not the life they chose to live.
Any suggestions ? Should I keep quiet or speak up ?
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
