11th Hour of Divorce & Trial: What Else Can I Do?

[Yasu]

Today, an event occurred I have not seen in a while. Husband contacted his American Express to change email from mine to an email called "mythos kalos" which appears to mean "beautiful story" or "buautiful talk" in his language.

At the separation he took me off the business accounts, and these emails really reveal nothing but his reaped calls to get a new card or number - or that he is late in paying. Many times I have tried to forward them back to AmEx, with no luck.

I just think it I'd interesting it happened about noon today. And yesterday evening, I made my "Hello" call. Actually, putting 2+2 together really hurts.

I investigated the email address and it doesn't exist. This brings up another concern.

My husband is. Not computer literatate, and as far as I know. Has never known how to operate an email. Further, he doesn't, or hasn't actually known what it was up until the time I had contact with him.

I am right back to a point of anxiety. What does this mean? Why does he come up with Mythoskalos as an email address? What the heck is so happy about the story these days? That is what inquiring minds would like to know.

Well, I avoided sending a smart-assed email to the address, despite my search turned up no such address (you really don't know until you try).

I fully expect to recieve something terrible in the near future from his attorney. What else can I do? Mr. Bond? Any other ideas?

In Bob Grants book, as the last resort - and he means last, he recommends arranging one last meeting and soon into the meeting, make the following statement, get up, and walk out:

"If you are not careful, you will lose me forever."

Grant says even if it's a meal, have the meal, be polite, make the statement and walk out. That is the end. It is an ultimatum.

If I have to go thru a trial, after what I have been thru with the legal system already, (and he knows very well how it impacted me), I really think I would be completely finished with him.

It is a boundary for me. Just like the late mortgage, and continued nonresponiveness regarding my badly needed support check. Once it came to the clear conclusion that the credit reports would be dinged in a domino effect, that crossed a boundary with me, and I handed to the attorney.

I assume that pissed him off. And I have really sweated bullets in the past. But it was too damn tight this time for games.

I am really taking Mr. Bond's suggestion to put ALL matters pertaining to money into the attorneys hands - so he will not associate me will money. I think that was a brilliant suggestion. I am currently putting together apx. $2-3000 worth of Court ordered items he owes me for. I had planned to ask for them a little at a time. I will just give the whole banana to L. Thank you Mr. Bond.

Guys, what does it all mean? I'm spinning. I can control urges, but I am spinning. Please, help!!