Lost_in_WA: Wow...quite a few similarities. However, my W hasn't been through as much therapy as your W. The thing that worries me is the difficulty with intimacy that victims of incest suffer from. How can we help them get past that and really open up their hearts? There has been a few moments where she seemed really warm and accepting of me. But almost always there seems to be a wall between us. And that is what worries me about DB's 180s is that it seems like it will be an opportunity for her to withdraw even further. Sometimes when I practice 180s I feel like I'm being too cold to her. Anybody else feel this way? Thanks.
