I guess I want to point out once again -- I am the WAW. I'm the one who is done. I'm the one doing everything I possibly can to figure out if I even WANT to try again. I'm really trying to want to. I'm first trying to work on me because I'm not really even receptive to engaging with H, much less able to do it in a positive way.
I guess I wish everyone could speak to me as if I was Crimson's wife. That is where I'm at right now, shy the formal D. I can't imagine any of these posts being said to her, and then expecting their M to R. I suspect she would say, "DUH! Of course I'm angry!" then flip you the bird and walk away. At the same time, Crimson has done a 180, whereas my H has not.
You may be absolutely right in everything you're saying, OT, but you must consider your audience.
