Small update: Ended up emailing just the MC and asked whether it would be individual or joint counseling and stated that I'd be willing to go with W providing she expressed interest.
He copied her on his reply to me saying he was thinking joint counseling. W didn't respond for a couple of days but just got a reply from her to the MC with me copied saying "Of course I will go. I want to".
So, finally. A positive. The last few weeks have been hard, but even though it's just her agreeing to go to MC, it feels like a huge positive. It could still be a few more weeks 'til we align our schedules and get in there, but at least I can feel more confident in what I'm doing and stay the course.
M:28 | W:28 | T:4.5 | M:2.5 | No Children EA1 Uncovered: Jun 2011 EA2 Uncovered: 2011-09-29 S: 2011-09-29 I'm moving on: 2012-05-08 My story: http://bit.ly/K3ttPM
