on another note, he completed a physical today for extra life insurance for our family - does that mean anything concerning his state of mind? he told me that his state of mind has improved since he moved out - but just on friday said he was mentally stressed over the situation? i sent him a brief overview of MLC and said i think that is what he was going through and needed to get a counselor to help him work through issues, but he insisted of course he has no issues and is doing what makes him happy as he has fell out of love with me.
please do NOT "diagnose" him at all, let alone TO HIM...that makes his feelings "wrong" and that does NOT work. Do not do what does not work. (Divorce Busting 101)
This telling him what's wrong with him and sending him literature YOU think he ought to read, will NOT help your situation. Read the books so you understand why this does not help.
And focus only on what YOU can do to work on YOU...let go of him and his issues
b/c it prevents you from doing the inner work you must do on you.
Focus on YOU, not him.
Stay in your sandbox and don't get into his.
Do you understand what I mean?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
