Kml,
I agree and my feelings are involved. I think all those reasons apply and OM is also a really solid guy and that is so refreshing after H. He doesn't want to be in an affair so he is being careful we don't get too serious before I am done with H.

That said, I am getting attached to him and even though he knows there is a chance I will reunite with H...I think he is getting attached too. I don't want to hurt him.


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012