Well, no one has posted a response to me and i am wondering if i am meaningful? i have not spoken to my spouse since monday, 2/27 and although he called me this morning i did not answer. i am trying to figure out how to detach with children as he has text our daughter who will not have anything to do with him at this point. i want my children to continue to love and support their father during this time but do what they have to in order to deal with the situation. i just do not want them to do something they may regret in the future or even worse not to have a relationship with their dad. I am not sure how to react when he calls as i have stated i believe he sends mixed signals. it seems he cares about us, but then i feel he only calls/texts because he wants to know what is going on, but i am not allowed to know or ask how things are with him - just does not seem fair. Any thoughts on his behavior or what might be a good response? i have also been thinking about contacting one of the divorce coaches to for advice if i am doing the right things or should try different approaches - not sure what to make of his actions. don't know if i mentioned this or not, but he took nothing from the house just a few clothing items but left everything does that mean anything?
