Mr Bond: You are very right about my expectations of telling him! I was hoping that it would make him open his eyes, but nothing will MAKE him open his eyes until he's ready. I lost sight of that through all of the emotions and need for something to happen.
I realized I need to refocus on myself and my DBing, GAL, PMA, kids, etc. I also needed to remind myself NOT to do anything with the hope that he will NOTICE, only do it because I want to and it will make ME happy!!
I have decided to wait to tell him unless the appropriate opportunity presents itself, such as him initiating R talk because I would also want to tell him that I have thought long and hard about it and that it is something that I can forgive him for. I definately would not tell him what I plan to do with this info just that I know about OW. I also don't intend to share any of my proof about OW.
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