I read you loud and clear. I enforced no boundaries and he did anything he pleased with no problem. I too, had my time to myself to pursue my creative projects, although, I never stopped letting him know that I missed him. I did, however, cease physically reaching out for him (not just sex) after years of rejection.

But he doesn't answer phone. What do you recommend I leave in a VM (if box is not full), or in a written note by mail?

What would a "hello" entail?


Married 27 Years
Together 32 Years
4th Year of Separation; D-Day 1 = 9/08, D-Day 2 = 12/08
Divorce Final Sept. 17, 2012