I do think he really wants to please you. He just hasn't figured out how to do it your way. Let him do it his way, get that feeling good, and then start your training through gentle nudges rather than a rolled-up newspaper!

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015