Waiting for the tides to change - 3

[2thepoint]

"this morning it started snowing as H txted to see if we needed the SUV. i didn't think so but, asked if he could come take S to school. i didn't think this was pursuing since D is still sounding like a frog and i didn't want to take her outside if i could avoid it. i figured, her needs are my priority. she's his D too. i didn't doubt that he would come so i did make sure to say thank you. it was sincere. i did really appreciate it."

When it relates to the kids, I don't see it as pursuit. Especially since it was your H who initiated the contact and made the offer for the car. You are being a good mom and hopefully he is being a good dad.