MZ and Starsky, and you guys are using my affair thread to discuss grammar! I have bigger problems here! :-)
Humor is all good.
H is floundering around. He is freaking out that I'm going to talk to a lawyer about money and about him trying to buy a house right now. "That's going to put us on the path to divorce." I was in an airport today for business travel and was in a crowd of people saying things on the phone to him like, "I didn't put us on the path for divorce...your affair over the last 8 months did!" My friend I confide in about this stuff found it kind of funny.
He is saying "if we reconcile" more often...but I keep asking him if he'll try or what he wants and he can't say.
I'm still texting quite a bit with my new guy "friend". We're going out for drinks on Friday. I'm sure I should feel worse, but this guy is great support for me and I'm having fun.
I'd love to know what OW is thinking these days...H is working very long hours and I can't imagine she'd be thrilled if she knew what he was saying to me about his indecision.
M 44, H 46 D11, D9, D5 Married 12 years PA confirmed 9/2011 I filed 3/2012 H moved out 7/2012