C_L you inspired me to re-read Passionate Marriage and I'm about half way through it now. I read it about 6 or 7 years ago when I was in my early 30s and re-reading it now is a completely different book. I realise now I just didn't even get it when I read it the first time. I had no frame of reference for much of the discussion.
It is actually a remarkable self-development book.
Have said that - have you discussed the book with your wife? It takes two to have a passionate marriage.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
