hope you love her, cause you're stuck with her now

[MichelleLT]

Yeah, it is pretty much exactly like having a kid.

As for his EMDR, I don't know. I understood it was supposed to be just a few months, but whether that means 3 or 6 I don't know. The biggest problem is that he was only seeing her every other week when he started EMDR and right now he's only seeing her once a month, so they aren't doing EMDR. She's been bugging him to get in more frequently so they can go back to EMDR. She wants him in every week for EMDR, I guess because of what Cyrena said about it being fast neural pathway changes.

He has a list of excuses for why he can't, money, too much time off work, etc. I think part of it is that he wants to do it, but he knows it's not going to be fun, so he's dragging his feet. He's more comfortable with the talk therapy, he likes the insights, but of course as we all know, insight is awesome, but it doesn't lead to change necessarily.